Where in the World?

My original plan for the weekend in London was to spend some time with friends. Something came up for them and they had to leave town. So, I was left to figure out what to do by myself.Years ago, I would have been bothered by this. In fact, I would have actually been angry that “my” plans changed. I liked and thrived on having agendas, plans and actions that did not deviate at all from the original.

Over the last few years, I’ve made significant progress in relaxing around how I interact with the ever changing world around me. It really has to do with the concept of Going with the Flow. My attitude towards my friends after they explained their new plans was simply; “It must be the right thing for them to do.” I did not take it personally and saw it as an opportunity for me to create an adventure.

On Saturday, I jumped on the tube (subway) and headed to Leicester Square. As I mentioned in Part 2 of Going with Flow, I started walking in the first direction that came to mind. I didn’t think about it. In summary, my day consisted of:

• Finding and walking around several unique books stores
• A very interesting 30 minute conversation with a Swami
• A brief conversation with the owner of an antique art and engraving shop (she was a “nutter” to quote a U.K. phrase)
• Fantastic cappuccinos and lattes
• Lovely spicy italian pizza (thin crust)
• Loads of people watching
• Wandering around Covent Garden market
• Visit to the seven story Waterstone bookstore in Piccadilly Circus
• Several photo opportunities
• Some good exercise (several miles of walking)

Of course everything turned out perfectly because I had an open attitude and didn’t focus on not spending time with my friends.

Next time your plans change, try out a new attitude for size. Believe that this is exactly how things should be and then “go with the flow.”

Have a great adventure!

Michael